Welcome to 4Parent.synthasite.com where we support the BeAll4 philosophy. There are three or four kinds of parenting according to presently accepted study. On and On Parenting includes all four. On and On Parenting is a way to be, where you have a variety of approaches. To learn more about the Lion or the Witch or the Claus, attend one of our presentations. What is Parenting? Most people know what parenting is; but they don't know that their parenting style begins with potty training. What are Parenting Styles? Many people have read about personality styles. There are many ways of classifying personality described in magazine articles. Personality style is like parenting style. One study was done of temperament; another of 2-year olds, another of grade school peer groups; all were finding 3 or 4 styles or ways of being.. these have been found stable at 4 and 8 and even into adulthood; not always, but usually. Intelligence studies at Harvard also found 4. There are 3 or 4 kinds of parenting. Why are some Parenting Styles or Personalities Not Supported as Parents? People are not educated enough to understand about personality and parenting. Why On and On Parenting? It's not a focus to change a person from what he is to something else, but to give variety, so a person can move out of problems from doing one thing excessively, stopping previous behavior priorities, empowering a person from a frog to a prince, increasing inner reserve to go on and move forward in any direction. Are there Disadvantages to what is Mostly Supported Right Now? Yes. In 1966 it was felt that one of the styles was a better choice; most parenting books are based on that one style. With On and On a variety of approaches is recommended over just that one style or Beall4. the highest quality and healthiest way of bee-ing available. There are very real problems people are having in not being allowed to stop, to slow down, and still be valued; excessive build up of going forward (aggression, anger) and stress (especially now, at Christmas-time, we are hearing talks about the problems of being a superman or superwoman.. of doing all, now, and the highest level and best - people are not enjoying life; people are not happy.. they're achieving, but not in happiness). There are many problems from doing one thing excessively, obviously; ... specifically, see video below. (4 columns 6 rows) On and On is a map; it shows you exactly what's going on and it is obvious that there are problems with doing just that one type of parenting or way of being and not including all the ways in temperate, mild, balance. People think that achieving and being superhuman is the way.. but, it isn't. There are problems with built up aggression. There are problems with personal relationships with those close. There are problems in that it isn't healthy... it just is not healthy. On and On is Healthy. You can read more about the philosophy at cra.yolasite.com. So what's the point, really. There are many programs on many levels.. children grow up with about the same problems they had when they were kids. (see video below) |
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